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People will remember you

Through authentic communication, meaningful connection, and unforgettable presence.

about you

You're already good at what you do

That's never been the problem.
You have the experience.
The expertise.
The ideas.
So why do some people seem to attract opportunities while others struggle to be noticed?
It isn't talent.
It's connection.
People don't remember the person who talked the longest.
They remember the person who made them feel something.

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our Services

Individual and group coaching tailored to your needs
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our Services

Individual and group coaching tailored to your needs

Every conversation is an opportunity to be remembered. Whether you're presenting to a boardroom, networking at an event, or stepping in front of a camera, Connect & Captivate helps you communicate with authenticity, confidence, and a presence people won't forget.

Meet Your Coach

Pamela sits at the intersection of business, arts and humanities.
Pamela DeRitis
Owner, Connect and Captivate
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Pamela draws on over fifteen years of experience in acting and improv to help you create authentic and influential communications with your peers, employees, or  audience. Through coaching that builds confidence and character, Pamela will help you become a trusted partner, whether you are networking in person, giving a keynote, or creating video content.

Pamela’s coaching programs are formulated from her training in Meisner technique, Practical Aesthetics, improv, and other acting techniques which have all shaped her life as an artist and entrepreneur. Pamela brings her unstoppable creative momentum to the table to help your businesses become captivating on camera, or off!

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What Our Clients Say

Pamela is outstanding in her approach towards helping others focus on how to deliver their message to others. She first takes the time to understand who you are wanting to communicate with. Then she observes how you deliver and offers very useful tips on how to deliver, how to excite, how to get your message across as if you are speaking to an individual vs just the camera. I highly recommend Pamela regardless if you currently do videos presenting yourself and your business, or are new to the process. Pamela makes you feel comfortable throughout the coaching process. You'll love her approach.
Tim Lynn
Licensed Realtor
Tim Lynn
Licensed Realtor
Miss DeRitis is a consummate professional and delivers constructive criticism in an easy to understand way so that you can make changes and improve. To say that at the beginning I sounded like a B grade SiFi movie robot is an insult to B grade SiFi movie robots everywhere. I have improved, with Miss DeRitis’s coaching, to the point that I have done at least two on camera videos with significant improvement. I have been in public speaking for over twenty years but speaking on camera is a very different skill. With Miss DeRitis, you will gain or improve your skill without question.
Robert Brown
IT Program Manager
Robert Brown
IT Program Manager
Pamela's professionalism and knowledge were impressive. She helps bring out your most authentic self and become more confident being on camera.
Managing Partner, Cushman & Wakefield
Managing Partner
Managing Partner, Cushman & Wakefield
Managing Partner
I will recommend Pamela to anyone.
Randell Beck
Owner, Beckshot
Randell Beck
Owner, Beckshot
Pamela is the Tom Ford of on-camera coaching!
Case
Physician Assistant, PrometheusXL
Case
Physician Assistant, PrometheusXL
Pamela is outstanding in her approach towards helping others focus on how to deliver their message to others. She first takes the time to understand who you are wanting to communicate with. Then she observes how you deliver and offers very useful tips on how to deliver, how to excite, how to get your message across as if you are speaking to an individual vs just the camera. I highly recommend Pamela regardless if you currently do videos presenting yourself and your business, or are new to the process. Pamela makes you feel comfortable throughout the coaching process. You'll love her approach.
Tim Lynn
Licensed Realtor
Tim Lynn
Licensed Realtor
Miss DeRitis is a consummate professional and delivers constructive criticism in an easy to understand way so that you can make changes and improve. To say that at the beginning I sounded like a B grade SiFi movie robot is an insult to B grade SiFi movie robots everywhere. I have improved, with Miss DeRitis’s coaching, to the point that I have done at least two on camera videos with significant improvement. I have been in public speaking for over twenty years but speaking on camera is a very different skill. With Miss DeRitis, you will gain or improve your skill without question.
Robert Brown
IT Program Manager
Robert Brown
IT Program Manager
Pamela's professionalism and knowledge were impressive. She helps bring out your most authentic self and become more confident being on camera.
Managing Partner, Cushman & Wakefield
Managing Partner
Managing Partner, Cushman & Wakefield
Managing Partner
I will recommend Pamela to anyone.
Randell Beck
Owner, Beckshot
Randell Beck
Owner, Beckshot
Pamela is the Tom Ford of on-camera coaching!
Case
Physician Assistant, PrometheusXL
Case
Physician Assistant, PrometheusXL

FAQ

Common Questions

  • Who is this coaching for?

    Connect & Captivate is designed for professionals, leaders, entrepreneurs, job seekers, and anyone who wants to communicate with greater confidence and impact. Whether you're preparing for a keynote, an important interview, or everyday networking, coaching is tailored to your goals.

  • What happens during a coaching session?

    Each session is personalized to your needs. Together, we'll strengthen your communication style, build authentic confidence, refine your presence, and practice real-world situations through interactive exercises and constructive feedback.

  • Do I need public speaking experience?

    Not at all. Whether you're just beginning or you're an experienced speaker looking to elevate your presence, coaching meets you where you are and helps you develop skills that feel natural and authentic.

  • How does acting training improve my speaking and networking skills?

    Acting techniques teach far more than performance. They develop presence, active listening, emotional authenticity, adaptability, and genuine human connection. By drawing from professional actor training, you'll learn to communicate with confidence and authenticity rather than relying on memorized scripts or rehearsed personas.

  • What makes Connect & Captivate different from traditional public speaking coaching?

    Most communication coaching focuses on what to say. Connect & Captivate focuses on how people experience you. By combining proven communication strategies with professional acting techniques, you'll develop authentic presence, stronger relationships, and the ability to leave a lasting impression long after the conversation ends.

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